Reflect separately
Start with 15 questions about your date. You can review your answers before submitting, and your individual responses remain private.
The original shared DateRecap
How DateRecap works
Two people reflect privately after a date. When both finish, DateRecap creates a shared summary without showing either person's individual responses.
Invite your date
Create a free account when you’re ready to send a private invitation. Your date can complete their reflection as a guest.
See your shared Recap
When both reflections are submitted, explore the combined insights together. Neither person sees the other’s individual answers or ratings.
Private answers. Shared insight.
A shared Recap is informational, not a verdict on your connection. Each person chooses whether to participate, and what happens next is entirely up to you.
Ready to try it?
Start your own private reflection, or explore the fictional demo first.